domestic violence, marriage, police, violence, women

Women who Sanction and Encourage Domestic Violence

In the past few years, we have opened our home to several different women (and their children) who have needed 'refuge' from their abusive partners. And I'm not talking about the 'He said my butt looked big in this dress and hurt my feelings...' kind of abuse. I'm talking about : punches in the face,… Continue reading Women who Sanction and Encourage Domestic Violence

Auckland University, author, childhood dreams, fantasies, Han Solo, Harrison Ford, samoa, Star Wars, Steven Spielberg, writing

Fantasy Realization

Everybody has those daydream fantasies when you're a kid growing up. No, not the ones where Han Solo knocks on your door and says, 'I've been searching the galaxy for you, come let us fly away into hyperspace together...' NO. I mean the fantasies where you think about what you want to be 'when you… Continue reading Fantasy Realization

children, hotel amanaki, Hotel Millenia, samoa, Treasure Garden Samoa

Why I’m not a rockstar.

Im here in Samoa for a week, with the Hot Man, the Princess and the Bella Beast.  We're staying at the Hotel Amanaki which is a beautiful hotel. (And not just because the Hot Man built it.)The Beast is very enamored of the Hotel Amanaki. Especially because it has a swimming pool, her favorite food… Continue reading Why I’m not a rockstar.

channing tatum, Hollywood, movies, romance, Ryan Reynolds, sleepless in seattle

Ingredients for a great romance.

                                      Start with some of this...I love going to the movies. I like the popcorn, the Diet Coke and the possibility of an ice cream. I like being swept away by a super duper story on screen.… Continue reading Ingredients for a great romance.

children, chores, Enrique Iglesias, full-time writer, Henry Cavill, homemaking, housework, immortals, samoa writing, Superman, the Hot Man

I Need a Man of Steel

So I'm a full-time writer now. What does that mean? It means that every morning, the Hot Man drives me to the library and leaves me there until 7pm at night. But first, I make him stop at the bakery up the road so I can get my lunch. A brown bread corned beef sandwich,… Continue reading I Need a Man of Steel

children, communication, conflict, marriage, relationships

Who’s the BOSS? Well, its not me.

Me and the Hot Man were having a discussion about our daughters. And what kind of relationships they will have with the people they will marry one day. (Because yeah, that's what lame parents do. Sit around and discuss their children all day.) I said,"The most important factor will be our example. Our children can… Continue reading Who’s the BOSS? Well, its not me.

children, marriage, relationships, the Hot Man, youth

I Hate the Hot Man.

Life's just not fair. This is the Hot Man EIGHTEEN years ago. (With a mildly attractive young woman at his side.)And this is the Hot Man NOW. Is it just me - or does this man look pretty much the same? Hello? Did we not live through the same number of years over the last… Continue reading I Hate the Hot Man.

Daniel, Leila, rugby, rugby player, samoa college, Telesa book.

Daniel Speaks.

Somebody asked me the other day, 'What was Daniel thinking when he first met Leila? Wouldn't it be awesome to get his perspective on things?" I thought about it and yes, I agree - it would be kind of interesting...so I asked him. Daniel, what did you think of Leila when you first saw her? What… Continue reading Daniel Speaks.

blogging, New Zealand, samoa, samoa blog

Is it Time to Shut Up?

You know what's scary? Going to a dinner function where you know nobody so you put your brave face on. And then when you're 'mingling' industriously,  you meet one, two, three, four (oh sh**) five different strangers who say - "Yes, I know you. I read your blog!"Way to put your blathering blithering rants into… Continue reading Is it Time to Shut Up?

children, exercise, ezra taylor, fitness, gym, iPod, Jennifer Nicole Lee, Telesafitness machines

‘Im Sexy and I know it’

Good morning 2012,This year, I will set realistic health and fitness goals. I will not be stupid and say “Im going to lose 40 pounds and have washboard abs that are SO amazing that I will be able to replace Ezra Taylor on the cover of my Telesa book.” No. I’m setting goals that can… Continue reading ‘Im Sexy and I know it’